When You Have Done Everything to Change But Nothing Changed

I know people who sincerely want to change for the better and in fact tried everything to make it happen. Even spent lots of money, to no avail. I also know people who really think they've changed a lot but don't see how all the old stuff in them is just covered with a thin vinyl or "wall" paper that easily bursts during unguarded moments. 

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Change is hard and isn't possible at all unless initiated by our Maker. Artificial change (change wrought by us or people) does not last and only allows the old, nasty self to grow bigger and stronger quietly in us, waiting for the right moment to erupt. It happens more with churchy people who believe they have become spiritual because of their self-imposed discipline. Or their religion or church. They wear an effective mask that fools people about their supposed change and spirituality. 

But actually, nothing's changed in them. 

Unless the LORD does the change, everything is skin-deep, wolf in sheep's clothing. Wolves of this kind are nice persons, as if always ready to help, as if sincere and caring, soft spoken, but later shed off the fake wool when their egos are touched. And egos are often invisible to the naked eyes when the ego-centered become experts at disguising it. I've met those who have mastered the art of disguising. 

But you know what exposes them? Their lecturing tendencies---when they can't stand those who are not of the same mind as they are, whose opinions differ from theirs. Their egos won't let you get away with your opposing convictions, so they argue with you (which they disguise as "healthy discussion"), lecturing about what you should do or believe, with the aim of making you look stupid for believing what you believe. 

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You Cannot Tame Your Ego

The ego, unless genuinely changed directly by the LORD, will never be tamed or changed for the better. And I mean, it should be the LORD Himself doing his personal molding on you. Counseling, therapy and even bible studies or listening to church sermons WILL NOT do it. They may effect artificial changes but they never last. Walang forever sa artificial. And sadly, almost everything in church today (regardless of the denomination) is merely artificial. 

Only Jesus' Blood can cleanse and purify, and only His resurrection power can quicken us from a dead spiritual life. This is why real change (transformation) is possible only with a personal encounter with Jesus, not just once, but everyday, even each moment of the day while we face everyday life in this world. His transforming Presence alone can do it. Good news is, that presence is available anywhere, any time, and in any mood you're in. In fact, I say it is more accessble when you're not in church, the church that men invented and run using the Babylon system, not the church Jesus builds. 

How to be in His Presence

First and foremost, you need to be soaked in God's spoken Word and led by the Holy Spirit. Without the Word that comes out of the mouth of God and without the Holy Spirit, everything is garbage. Remaining in His Word means remaining in His presence 24/7, and this is only possible if you're Spirit led 24/7. When you're soaked in the presence like this, you transform, genuinely. It's God Himself doing the mighty work in you. You don't struggle or exert any effort. 

How is this possible? Aside from asking the Holy Spirit to "reveal" truth to you supernaturally (not through man's theology, bible study tools or lessons or hermeneutics or whatnot), you remain in the presence by always chatting with the LORD, telling or discussing things with Him, or simply quietly relaxing in His presence, always "aware" of being near Him and in Him. You talk, laugh, or joke with other people, you may even be stressed by work at the office or in your business, stressed by traffic or problems (hurt, frustrated, disappointed or anxious about things), but these things change nothing about your spiritual composure inside because you remain in His Presence. 

And this genuinely changes---even transforms---you to be better. 

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